Vision and Values And Esteemable Acts®
Vision and Values. Believe it or not, every choice we make contributes to the life we live. Whether we act with integrity, make progress toward our goals, strengthen our relationships, or choose not to take an action, when necessary, these small decisions shape our lives and our self-worth. Start by downloading the Vision and Values Worksheet for Purpose.
Esteemable Acts—the daily, intentional actions that align with our values—are the key to building real confidence, genuine self-respect, and a truly fulfilling life.
Many of us struggle with self-doubt, fear, or feelings of being stuck. We sit and wait for motivation, for external validation, or for circumstances to change. But true self-esteem isn’t something we think our way into, nor is it something that will tap us on the shoulder and say, “Look, I’m here.” Self-esteem is something we build through action—affirmative action.
Esteemable Acts help us reclaim our power, one small step at a time. This workbook and blog series are designed to guide you in doing just that.
How This Vision and values Series Works
Through this series, we’ll take a structured approach to aligning your actions with your values. This is not about passive reading or wishful thinking, it’s about engagement, honesty, and transformation. Developing attitudes and behaviors that get in the way of our happiness and success didn’t develop overnight. As a result, changing them won’t happen instantaneously. Much of it depends on your willingness to take positive action, even when you don’t want to.
We’ll work through quarterly themes that serve as the foundation for your growth, breaking them down into monthly focus areas and small, manageable steps you can take on a weekly and daily basis. By the end of this journey, you’ll have a clearer sense of direction, a deeper connection to your values, and a tangible plan for living your best life.
The key to getting the most out of this process? Self-honesty, consistency, and patience.
Step One: Assess Where You Stand (Page 6 – Life Slices)
Before setting goals or making changes, you need a clear and honest picture of your life as it is today. One of the most important exercises in this workbook is the Life Slices assessment found on page 6. This is where you think about your vision and values.
Think of your life as a pie, with each slice representing a different key area—health, relationships, career, finances, spirituality, and personal growth. Some slices might feel full and thriving, while others feel neglected or overwhelming. When you take a step back and evaluate your life in this way, patterns emerge.
I invite you not to see this as a judgment, but instead, as an opportunity to gain a greater perspective of your life.
- Where are you thriving?
- Where do you feel stuck?
- What areas need more of your attention?
The Life Slices exercise helps you see these truths clearly so that you can move forward with intention. The more transparent you are with yourself, the more powerful this journey will be.
Step Two: Define Your Vision (Page 9 – Life’s Purpose & Personal Vision Statement)
Now that you’ve mapped where you are, work through the book but pay special attention to page 9.. Page 9 of your workbook invites you to create a Life’s Purpose and Personal Vision Statement.
This is not about crafting a perfect mission statement that will never change. In fact, your vision will likely evolve throughout the year, as you morph into the person you desire to be. Growth requires adaptability, and your goals and ideals should be flexible enough to reflect who you are at any point in your journey.
Think of this statement as your compass—it guides your choices and keeps you aligned with what truly matters to you. As you progress, you can return to this statement, refine it, and make sure it still resonates with where you are in the moment. For now, let’s take a look at your Vision Statement.
How to Write Your Personal Vision Statement?
- Start with your core values. First, for some, this may appear to be a daunting task. It doesn’t have to be. It’s just the first step in the process and remember, it can always be modified. Here are some questions to get you thinking: What truly matters to you? Are there causes that you support or believe in? What makes them so appealing to you? Think of the people you like and respect. What attracts you to them? What qualities do they have that you admire?
- Imagine your ideal life. If everything in your life were aligned with your values and desires, what would it look like? Consider your relationships, career, health, and personal growth.
- Define your purpose. How do you hope to impact the world or those around you? What legacy do you want to leave?
- Keep it simple and inspiring. Your vision statement should be clear and motivating—something you can return to whenever you need guidance. Again, the simpler the better.
- Write it in the present tense. Instead of “I hope to be,” try “I am someone who…” This helps reinforce belief in your ability to grow into this vision.
Remember, this is a work in progress. As your life changes, your vision will, too. The important thing is to put something down now and adjust as you go.
Quarterly Themes & First Focus Area: Your Purpose Statement
Each quarter, we’ll explore a different foundational theme that contributes to a fulfilling life. These themes will be broken down into monthly focus areas, helping you take practical steps toward growth in a structured, meaningful way.
Our first theme? Your purpose in life, looking at your Life Slices.
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Francine D. Ward
Attorney-at-Law, Author, Speaker
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